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the way to deal with children....

eivoc

Topics: 3 Posts: 11

Created about 1 year ago

I am struggling with the issue of whether to divorce. If not for the children, it would be no-brainer.

I've already established that it is highly unlikely my wife will support joint custody, and I already know the likely outcome of the trial will result her getting custody since I don't spend the most amount of time with the kids. Yay for me for having a SERIOUS life and earning the sole family income. I might as well be the victim and suffer from my efforts to support the family by losing my children, eh?

Questions: 1) When is enough, enough. My wife refuses to work with me to solve family issues. She expects me to bend over, but won't negotiate to my favor on family matters. When does a man know when to quit, file for divorce, and suffer to impending loss of his children?

2) How can I save my children from becoming hateful of me for giving up? How can I make sure they know, when they're older (oldest is 3) that they were not a reason for the divorce, that daddy couldn't be happy because he and mommy couldn't work together?

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